Types of Couples That All of Us HATE..

Happy Hump Day!!

Today's blog post will be on the types of couples, I utterly hate seeing or spending time with.

They could be my friends, family or just random strangers I see on the commute, or malls.

Yes, I have "Been there, done that" in a few of the following examples below.

So here's just a tip of how not to put people off in public, including friends!

#1.  P. D. A

For those of you that do not know what this stands for..

It stands for "Public Display of Affection". 

It could range from the snogging, groping to the "Go get a room!" kind of situations. 

I personally think this is something with a really fine line to define what is appropriate,

and what is not. 

I guess it really depends on the situation, venue, instance, & people around. 

If you make out in a club on a party night, I wouldn't judge. 

It's a party night for a reason, & everyone's kind of in the mood & doing it. 

BUT, do not snog for minutes to hours on hand, & stop with that groping or public fondling.

& yes, GO GET A ROOM!!

P.D.A is common, & I do not hate it or discourage it.

I mean, if you feel like showing your partner (& the world) that you simply love your partner alot,

go ahead. 

But no when to stop, and not to put us people in an awkward situation, especially friends. 

The trick is to do it mildly, never too overwhelming,

& if things get heated, stop whatever you are doing, & go somewhere private. 

#2.  DRAMA MAMA (& PAPA)

I will put it out there first, 

I used to be one of them. 

Yes, one of them, and very guilty of it. 

The Drama Mamas & Papas are just generally the type of couples you see publicising their relationships on all forms of Social Media. 

Simply put- They post their dirty linen for all to see. 

Their fights, arguments, quarrels, "Who cheated on who" kind of story line might somehow be entertaining & intriguing at the start.
But after awhile, it gets boring & irritating!

*Especially if you know both of them.* 

Word spreads like fire on the Internet, 

even if you are not famous or a celebrity to begin with.

Friends or acquaintances on your social media platforms would use you as their gossip material.

& that was what got me to stop.

I used to post my sob stories about relationships & what not on Facebook. 

& every single time I quarreled with my ex, this would go back & forth on our walls.

For common friends of ours, I guess it was entertaining at first, 

but then it got too painful to watch. 

Girls usually fall prey to this bad habit, 

cos we just needed that little bit of affirmation from our friends that we are not the ones at fault.

& C'mon, we all have to admit that it feels pretty good to be sided, 

and have friends on your side to agree that person is a jerk/bitch.

But, let's just take a moment to just analyse this bad habit.

Does it do anything for us?

Does it make the situation better? Or worse?

& Do I really need to put it all out there, on the Internet?

The answer is NO. 

So, if you ever do catch yourself doing something silly like that- STOP.

Take a breather, type it all out, post it if you like (BUT remove it 2 secs later).

Else, you'd be the talk of the town. (the laughing stock kind)

#3.  SUPER GLUE.

This is something I hate, especially if the girl or guy in the relationship is a super good friend.

The Super Glue couple is simply the couple that you will never see apart. 

They are ALWAYS together. 

They live together, some even work together, & they are ALWAYS in the same space, 

breathing the same freaking air. 

The kind of couple whom if you wanna get hold of, call the partner's phone. 

He/She will definitely be there. 

I have almost no issues with couples wanting to spend all their time together. 

BUT, before he/she was in a relationship, he/she was my friend.

& we used to hang out alot. 

So, I'd expect to get to spend time with my best friend, without having his/her's +1, 

all the time!!

I don't usually hate the person's partner, or dislike them even..

Sometimes I am even glad I made a new friend, & of cos' happy that my bestfriend has found someone he/she likes..

But, give me my bro/sis back!!!!

#4.  The Too Perfect Couple

The last one is a couple that we all secretly hate.

Not hate, in a bad way..

But their relationship is so perfect that it makes us think twice about our own.

The guy is good looking, the girl is gorgeous.

They are super happy, & lovey dovey, & never ever quarrel.

If there was anything on their Facebook posts once every now & then, 

ir usually are praises & love declarations or photos to one another.

They are just everything that we all want to experience, and be, while being in a relationship.

BUT, all couples have their problems.

Their problems could be hidden very well beneath the surface, shoved under a rug..

Or they could simply have very good mutual understnading, & tip top communication tricks.

So, don't hate them, but rather, look at them as role models.

Ask them how they achieved whatever they have. 

Hear from them, analyse them, and see if  any of the pointers are worth to carry forward. 

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I hope you guys enjoyed my short relationship posts on the Types of Couples We All Hate.

It was a random inspiration after sighting some couples, and observing their actions, 

especially in public. 

Till my next relationship post, 

stay positive & happy. 

xoxo, @clarabeltan 

How To Ruin Your Relationship in 5 Simple Steps!

Hello lovelies.

Yes, you read that right!

Not 5 Simple Steps to better improve a relationship, 

but rather the 5 Simple Steps to Ruin Your Relationship. 

So avoid them as much as you can, or say bye bye to that relationship of yours. 

The below 5 are the TOP 5 common mistakes I have made, 

or seen other make. 

So take note of them, and definitely do not do them.. 

UNLESS, you want to get rid of that special someone,

or simply end the relationship. 

So let's begin!

#1.  Compare your partners with everyone else (Including that Ex-Girlfriend)

I think a lot of people know this one pretty well.

Never compare your current partner with the ex-girlfriend, friends, mother or family. 

Just never compare them to anything & anyone.

UNLESS, it's a favourable one. 

Like, "You cook as well as my mum!"

Example of unfavourable ones.

"Why ain't you as understanding as my ex-girlfriend?"

"Why can't you be a better cook, like my mum?"

"Why can't you be as buff & muscular as my ex?"

"Why can't you drive me around & spend more time with me, like John used to do.."

I would say that it is common for people to have benchmarks preset in their minds,

from their experiences with others. 

But NEVER, EVER, say it out loud. 

Heck, I won't even recommend you comparing anyone even if it's in your head. 

Cos' it's just not fair. 

Everyone is unique in their own ways & no one loves to be compared to someone better,

or be put down by their loved ones. 

#2.  Nag or Grumble too much!

There's a thin life between complaining & grumbling incessantly, 

reminding & nagging.. 

Men hate naggy women.

They get enough from their mothers & other older women in their family. 

Generally, they would hate it if you did it too.

So remember, say it nicely in a pleasant tone & never say more than 2 times in a row. 

#3.  Leash Them Real Close,

Nobody loves being suffocated. 

Nobody loves having no personal space or no air to breathe. 

This is something I always advocate in my relationships.

I am someone who values my own personal time & space, so this comes naturally for me. 

Cut them loose at times.

Whether it is a trip to the mall with the girlfriends, for a shopping trip or pamper session. 

OR a girls' night out. 

OR a guys' night out watching soccer or heading to the bars. 

Nobody likes to be stuck to someone 24/7,

and being refused of anytime with his or her friends. 

Remember, before you appeared, those friends & activities were what he/she did & loved.

As long as it is healthy, let them go. 

Being stuck together over prolonged periods of time causes conflict to arise. 

So why not take a step back, and enjoy some alone time or time with your besties/buddies.

#4.  Keep Scores like in a Football Match

YES, a lot of us do this. 

Especially the women, I'm not gonna side the female population.

Cos' even I know, I am guilty of this one. 

Humans in general, forgive when other fault against them. 

But it is very hard to forgive. 

So... Talk it out completely once the situation occurs. 

Clear it up, & sweep it under a rug. 

& NEVER bring it up. 

It gets tiring, & yes you feel it is necessary to bring it up, 

cos it helps prove your point.

But imagine being thrown the same shit in your face.

It gets tiring to hear & say.. 

& it irritates everyone. 

So don't bring up the past, cos no one likes to reminded of their mistakes,

even after months & years. 

#5.   Cheat, like Love is Just A Game!

This is something I ABSOLUTELY DESPISE!

No one should ever cheat, while being in a relationship.

Relationships are sacred things that are fragile & delicate.

Once someone cheats in a relationship, the relationship is pretty much headed for doom.

When you cheat, you might think that your partner may never find out.

But deep down, you are plagued with guilt and some anger towards your self.

*That is, if you even love your partner at all!*

& what I observed from people around me is that,

once someone cheats, it is very unlikely that will be his first & only time. 

Not only with you, but even with the next partner they have. 

Cos' somehow with every cheating that lies undiscovered, 

it is a certain motivation to cheat even more. 

& some people do like the thrill of it. (Sick Bastards..)

I never do see a need to cheat. 

You know how badly it will hurt your loved one. 

So why do it?

I'd rather end the relationship there & then once I've gotten tempted to even think about cheating.

So if you love & cherish your partner and the relationship,
never commit the 5 mistakes above!

What else do you think will ruin a relationship?
Share with me in the comments section!


In the meantime, have a great week ahead!
xoxo @clarabeltan

StageLook Nails: Purple Dazzle!

Apologies for being away for a bit, & missing Monday's post. 

I am currently down with a massive infection around my eye area, 

and is still under medication. 

Therefore, I've been hiding under my covers & not doing anything, 

other than resting my poor eyes...

But, here's a post with beautiful colours!

My 2nd appointment with Stagelook Nails!

I decided to do a more girly set of acrylic extensions, 

as my previous one was more of a neutral feel. 

Read more about  my previous MONOCHROME nail design!!

This set which I named it as Purple Dazzle was created using 3 colours- 

Pastel Purple, Light Pink & Black in the middle.

Before the black was applied, my nails looked like Paddle Pop Ice-Cream!

*so yummy!*

What I love about StageLook Nails is that Lynn is not only sweet, friendly but super patient.
A set of nails like this takes about 1.5 hours to 2 honour to complete,
yet she never shows any sign of impatience.
& I always have nails that are beyond my expectations!
Needless to say, the number of compliments I receuved for this set of nails,
is endless!! <3!

Since it is near the festive season..
Why not glam up your nails with StageLook nails?

Mention my name "Clarabel", to receive 10% off all nail services.
Stagelook Nails is also doing a loyalty program where every $30 gets you one stamp.
With every 4 stamps, you get a free pedicure session!!


SO DON'T WAIT, BOOK YOUR APPOINTMENTS WITH LYNN @922201355!

Manicure and pedicure price list.

Classic Manicure- $12
Classic Pedicure- $22

Express gel manicure- $25
Express gel pedicure- $35

Classic gel manicure- $38

Classic gel pedicure- $48

Stage Look Nails is located at:

Blk 347 Bukit Batok Street 34,

#01-268 

Facebook: Stagelook Nails

Instagram: @stagelooknails

XOXO, @clarabeltan 

The Me Time TAG!!

It's Monday again!!

I know what a dread Monday is to most of us, 

so I decided to do something fun for my Monday blog post!

Essie Button & Amelia Liana have both been my favourite beauty blogger & Youtuber, 

for a very long time. 

& when they created the "Me Time Tag", I knew I had to recreate it into a blog post!

For those who are interested, this is their video!

Essie Button & Amelia Liana

& of course I can't forget my other favourite UK beauty bloggers & Youtubers!

Fleur DeForce's version of the "Me Time Tag".

Beautycrush's version of the "Me Time Tag".

So let's just dive right into it!!

What exactly does "Me Time" mean?

"Me Time" actually just means alone time. 

The time where you are away from everyone, and all you do is unwind, relax,

and simply just spend some time with yourself!

Q1. What do you watch or read during me-time?

Well for me, I am an ultimate beauty junkie & bookworm. 

My me-time would consist of me lying in bed, reading the latest fashion & beauty magazines, 

watching beauty related videos on Youtube, 

or reading a fictional book every once in a while. 

Yes, I am pretty much a book nerd. 

What I've been reading:

#GIRLBOSS by Sophia Amoruso (just got this yesterday!)

The Hunger Games Trilogy- Currently trying to finish "The Mocking Jay" before the movie starts screening in our local cinemas.

Q2. What do you wear during me-time? #nobra

Yes, #nobra. 

When I am at home, the bra goes off. 

It's just not comfortable being in something that binds your chest area, 

and whole of the boobies 24/7. 

Sometimes, you need to set them free. 

Too Much Information (TMI).

I'm not much of a pyjamas person, so I usually choose to wear really cute robes or nighties, 

from brands like Victoria Secret, La Senza or Anne Bra. 

Yes, I admit, I wear them for no one else to see, but myself. 

But why not doll yourself pretty, in pretty & comfy clothes, 

especially since it is me-time!!

Q3. What are your me-time beauty products?

My me-time beauty products changes now & then, 

depending on my mood, 

and also cos of the obscene amount of beauty products I have to finish through.

So my products kind of take turns to pamper me on different days & pamper sessions!

But here are my favourites!!

 Review for this products are below:

SK-II Facial Treatment Essence
Glamglow Thirsty Mud
Tarte Marcuja Oil
First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair Instant Oatmeal Mask
Peter Thomas Roth, Rose Stem Cell Mask

Vitamin Science Vitamin B & C serum & emulsion

 Bobbi Brown Eye Cream Extra
I use this on my undereye area before applying makeup to keep the delicate skin around the eye, hydrated & moisturised.
A very thick, creamy formula.
Will review this in detail very soon.

 Caudalie Grapewater Spray
I spray this immediately after cleansing my face.
It is said to increase hydration levels by 127%.
Not sure about the %, but I love how my skin feels hydrated , soft & less irritated after using this.
A cheaper & great alternative to the Caudalie Beauty Elixir.

Margherita Ghel by Superberry.me
Helps skin celles to regenerate. 
Love how this light cream feels on my skin.
Skin feels comfortable, subtly hydrated & less irritated.

Q4. Current favourite nail polish? 

I don't really paint my nails as I often get my nails done with The Stage Look. 

If you have not read about the awesome nail services that The Stage Look, Lynn, provides...

Read about it here!

@THE STAGELOOK NAILS

Q5. What do you eat/drink during me-time? 

For me, this is a pretty easy one. 

Recently I've been obsessed with the LOTTE Pepero Almond Sticks, Chips More Double Chocolate cookies,

& the Heaven & Earth Ayataka drink!!

If the Ayataka is not an available option, I would go for Green Tea Latte or Matcha.

Q6. Current favourite candle?

Almost any candle from Bath & Body Works!!

I am currently burning the Watermelon Lemoncade 3-wick candle.

It is sweet and fruity smelling, but not really suitable for Fall & Winter season. 

But, my Fall candles are still in the US warehouse & have not shipped yet. 

*CAN'T WAIT TO BURN MY FALL CANDLES!*

Q7. Do you ever have outdoor me-time? 

Sometimes, when I bring my dog, Bacon, out for his walks or to dog cafes & grooming sessions.

Sometimes it is good to go for a walk out there & to breathe in some fresh air!

Good exercise too!

Q8. Would you ever go see a movie alone? 

I have never gone to see a movie alone.

And though I usually think why not, if I have 2 hours to spare in between appointments.

But I'd rather just go to a mall and do some retail therapy!!

<3

Q9. Favourite online shop? 

Beautybay.com, Drugstore.com, Beauty.com (for all things beauty & skincare)

ASOS (for fashion)

Taobao.com using 65daigou for all other random stuff!

Q10. Anything to add? What else do you do during me-time? 

During me-time I simply just love to relax. 

It could be a random shopping trip alone in Town, 

or just snuggling under my covers.

I have one big habit though- & that is to book hotel rooms & sleep in them, alone.

Especially when I am feeling down, out & not motivated.

I love the big comfy white sheets & pillows. 

& hot water baths in the tubs.

Room service. 

Cable TV.

So if I ever go MIA for whatever reasons, I'm usually well hidden in a hotel room!

That's all for now.

Share with me what you would do for a pamper "me-time" session!

& play this tag if you'd like!

xoxo, @clarabeltan 

Emergency Stocking Filler: Christmas Ideas For Her!

We are less than 50 days away from Christmas, 

how exciting!! 

Christmas has definitely got to be my favourite holiday of the year. 

Christmas cheer, festive dinners, shopping sales & discounts of course!!

The good food, good atmosphere, beautiful lights along Orchard Road..

& what better way to celebrate this festive season than to shop for presents for your loved ones!

Yes, I know..
Women are complicated creatures who are fickle & well, 

hard to please. 

So here's a guide to some Christmas present ideas for those that are clueless & already wrecking your poor brains about what to get for that special someone. 

*Psst.. Guys, take note.

Chocolates & flowers are not what she wants this Christmas!!

For Skincare Junkies

Yes, this is the newest skincare gadget in the market. 

The Foreo. 

It is somewhat along the lines of the Clarisonic & Clinique or Michael Todd Sonic Brushes. 

The theory behind the gadgets are pretty much the same- 

to give a better, deeper cleanse & also to help improve dirt, grime & improve the skin. 

The Foreo has many versions!

The Foreo Luna, Foreo Luna Mini & Foreo Lux.

& the price ranges from $225 to $12,500. 

Yes, the Lux is a little too extreme for even me, an avid skincare junkie. 

(I'd rather by a Chanel bag)

However, the mini is an awesome alternative at the price of only SGD$225,  

and comes with 5 different colours even!

So what exactly does the Foreo do?

Well, the Foreo uses T-Sonic patented technology, that channels sonic pulsations into the skin.

Therefore, the skin is cleanse of all impurities, dirt & grime, leaving skin fresh, clean & less prone to any clogged pores, breakouts or problematic areas. 

The Foreo does promise to give brighter, more radiant & clear skin when used twice daily over a short span of time.
& what is best about this product is that, it is suitable for all skin types! 

The bristles at the top are super small & gentle on the skin, while it has a massaging back surface that you can use to massage your skincare products into the skin better. 

Double function of clean skin & better penetration of products, especially those expensive ones like SK-II!! 

* The Foreo is available at Sephora Singapore, or you can ship directly from the FOREO website.*

Another alternative to the Foreo, would be the amazing, & well loved Clarisonic. 

The Clarisonic has been around for a few years now, & have pretty much upgraded itself over the past few years. 

The latest would be the Clarisonic Aria. 

I myself, own the Clarisonic Mia 2 for about a year now.. 

& I must say that I really love it! 

The concept of the Clarisonic is just alike the Foreo Luna. 

However, it does not have the massaging system at the back of the device. 

However, the Clarisonic is said to be able to be used even on the body, 

to give brighter, glowing skin!

& one more thing that I love about the Clarisonic?

It has got to be the interchangeable brush heads that have a wide variety for the different skin types & functions!

I personally am using the Sensitive & Delicate brush heads. 

A new Aria, or Mia 2 Clarisonic usually comes with the normal brush head. 

However, you can change the brush heads to your liking..

& remember to change your brush heads every 3 months or so!

*Go to a Sephora & feel the Cashmere or Luxe brush heads, they are so freaking luxurious!!*

*The Clarisonic is available off Clarisonic counters or at all Sephora outlets!*

& here are also some of my favourite skincare brands that often have skin care sets & promotions, especially during the Christmas season!!

Fresh Beauty that is available at Sephora Singapore!

* I love Fresh & have found that their sets are super affordable! Almost 50% of their usual price!*

Therefore, explains the 2 sets that I got below, in the past month. 

The Youth Preserve Set SGD$75 

The Age Delay skincare set SGD$90. 

Philosophy Skincare 

My holygrail Purity face cleanser!

Read my review here if you have not: 

http://theperfectmonologue.blogspot.sg/2014/09/top-4-favourite-cleansers.html

Or simply, if all else fails, get a Sephora Voucher or a Luxola Voucher,
& let her shop away!

If you are extra sweet.. Follow her to the shops & carry her shopping bags!! 

For Makeup Junkies

One of the most talk about that us Singapore beauty bloggers have been raving about, 

has got to be the opening of an Inglot outlet on our shores!!

Yes, Inglot has been around for many years over in the States & UK. 

But, Singapore was even behind Malaysia, KL, in having an outlet on our shores itself!

I first purchased my Inglot makeup from KL, & when I knew they were opening in Singapore, 

I was ECSTATIC!!

My Inglot Collection- Small but definitely gonna build it up.

Another favourite brand of makeup, would be MAC Cosmetics.

MAC has been around in Singapore for years & years. 

They are a super well established brand all over the world, & everyone raves about the products. 

Just to name a few: MAC Fix Plus

MAC mineralised skin finishes in "Lightscapade" & "Soft & Gentle"

MAC Lipsticks in Candy Yum Yum, Velvet Teddy, Vegas Volt, Sin, Girl About Town.

The list goes on.. 

& of course, I am an avid fan of the brand!!

If you are unsure of what to get, go to Sephora ION & look for my favourite MAC artist, 

Alif. 

He is always so helpful & really knows his stuff well. 

I can also say 90% of my MAC products are bought with his help..

& of course, if all else fails, get some Vouchers!! 

& if your lady in mind, doesn't fancy any skincare or makeup, 

but a good ol' facial or massage session..

Why not try out this 2 places?

Only Aesthetics/ O Medical Clinic

O Medical is my aesthetics clinic of choice. 

I visit them twice a month for my facial appointments, & I must say I am satisfied with their service. 

Being under the same company, Only Aesthetics is having a special promotion in which I would love to share with my readers!

How much do you think a normal session of laser facial cost in Singapore?

S$88, $188, $250? 

Well, take whatever amount you had in mind & multiply it by 2 for 2 sessions!

"ONLY FOR 2" Promotion

Simply come with a friend to our ONLY Aesthetics flagship outlet at Raffles Place and present this promotion in print or on your mobile phone. 

You and your friend get to enjoy a treatment session together!

Choice of either one of the treatments:

2 Session Laser Facial for only $48 (UP. $576)

2 Session Fat Freeze for only $188 (UP. $3000)

Look great together this November!

For bookings and enquires, call 6220 4434.

Le Spa (www.lespa.com.sg)

Le Spa has always been my choice of massage or spa place. 

Not only are they opened 24 hours a day, they have 2 outlets that are pretty central & convenient!

The newest outlet is located at Upper Bukit Timah, while the other is in Chinatown. 

Just look at the cosy rooms!

I love Le Spa because they are so clean, comfortable, relaxing  & the masseurs are just great & friendly. 

*Le Spa is having a promotion package of $600 value at only $500!

What's more is that this package can be shared amongst friends, families etc. 

So why not pamper yourself & your loved ones at Le Spa. 

I vouch that you won't regret!! 

That is pretty much all for now. 

My Christmas ideas are pretty much limited to the beauty & lifestyle aspect. 

If you wish for me to cover a fashion or gadget aspect in a post, 

feel free to drop a comment below on what you want to see or find out! 

Till the next post, 

stay healthy & happy.

xoxo, @clarabeltan